What recommendation should an early childcare assistant give to help a mother and toddler separate on the first day of childcare?

It is essential for a mother to explain the departure to the toddler ahead of time as this helps prepare the child for the separation. Young children thrive on routine and predictability, and knowing what to expect can alleviate anxiety. When the mother communicates the plan, using simple language that the child can understand, it allows the toddler to process the information and reduces the likelihood of fear or confusion when the time comes for separation.

This approach fosters a sense of security in the child, as they know what will happen next. It also models healthy communication and emotional regulation, teaching the child that while separations can happen, they are normal and manageable. Engaging in this conversation can create a transition plan that the child can learn to anticipate, leading to a smoother goodbye. This supportive framework is critical for building trust and helping the toddler feel more comfortable in the childcare setting.

Other methods, such as interacting extensively just before leaving or sneaking out quickly, do not provide the child with the understanding they need to cope with the situation. These can create more confusion and anxiety rather than easing the transition. Similarly, rehearsing goodbye with minimal interaction over a long period may not be as effective as a direct conversation about what to expect on the day of separation.